Dating girl broken heart
It can be very unsettling for the whole person to love the broken person because it’s so unsettling to love someone who is so unsettled in themselves.
The broken person has issues they’re dealing with that they want the whole person to understand, and while the whole person tries damn well hard to understand and see things from their point of view, eventually they realize that can’t completely ignore all their own needs and wants in a relationship, just because they love this person that much.
There was something about him, that just pulled me like a magnet. What I neglected to realize is the more time I spent with him, the more I would just fall for him and want to get closer and closer to him, and want him to do the same for me. Situations such as these are all tough to find answers to when you’re knee deep with the emotional responsibility of a committed, romantic relationship.Sure your partner can be there for you, can understand what you’re going through, but you can’t truly love someone until you love yourself.But true healing, true empowerment for this broken person comes from facing their brokenness head on.And for someone who is broken, who has potentially leaned on romantic relationships to help fill the empty space where their brokenness often resides, slowly rotting away, the prospect of facing their demons can be a daunting, luminous mountain that makes Mordor seem like a bunny hill full of sunshine.